Frens..frens.frens...
Friendship means understanding and being understood...
Friendship means affirming and being affirmed...
Friendship means accepting and being accepted...
Friendship means helping and being helped...
Friendship means forgiving and being forgiven.
Syukur .. Alhamdullillah...If we are surrounded by good and loyal frens around us..
And may the spirit of frienship will keep blossmings...day by day..
but it's undeniable that some of the frenship ties ..was broken in the middle of the road...what a waste...
Friendship with positive values should last forever of coz.. but those with negative, destructive, or unhealthy ....should end...and never regret about it...at all....
Friendship rules are very different from romance rules. Romances have to have a proper beginning and end.
But friendships are different. Friendships develop gradually - and should end gradually.
We all know the protocol. If you decide you don't like someone any more you just call less and less. You make excuses, don't return phone calls for several days and make arrangements less frequently. Before you know it, your relationship has been downgraded.
After a decent period of time you stop calling altogether, and then, by unspoken agreement, the friendship is over. No awkward confrontation, no tears........
10 years ago
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